Being Fit is Being Sexy

Abigail Blank - The Upside Blog |

by | Updated: December 3rd, 2016 | Read time: 2 minutes

What makes a woman sexy? If you ask one hundred people, you’ll get one hundred answers. But those answers all have one common thread: A healthy woman is a sexy woman.

Eating right and exercising are the most important keys to a healthy lifestyle. Make exercise a way to connect with your man. Whether it’s joining a gym, taking Salsa classes, signing up for a co-ed soccer team, or doing yoga in your living room, make it something you want to do together. Not only will you benefit from the shared interest and quality time together, but you will keep each other motivated.

Plus, there’s the post-work out shower to look forward to. Once you’ve gotten all sweaty and limber, hop in the shower together and make use of all of that positive energy flowing between you. Take a fun toy with you like the Sports Sheet Sex in the Shower Mini Personal Massager. Or maybe you need to mend your aching muscles. Take turns giving each other a good rub down with Kama Sutra Healing Blend Massage Oil to ease the fatigue in your well-worked body.   Then, share a soothing soak in the tub.

If you’re having trouble finding motivation to move your body, look in the mirror and tell youself, “My body is beautiful. I will celebrate it by using it to it’s fullest potential!” Getting healthy and staying fit are not just a gift to yourself, but your whole family. And doing it with your man is even better because, honestly, everything is more fun with a partner.

“The Bombshell Mommy” is written by Abigail Blank, romance author and mother of three. Frozen Heart and its sequel, Melted Tears, are published under her pen name: Annabelle Blume. Got a question about how to juggle it all and still be a Bombshell? Email Abigail at, connect with her on Facebook, follow her on Twitter @Bombshell_Mommy and look for her on Pinterest.