I had a terrible time getting back in the swing of things after having kids. My body changed so much, I felt uncomfortable unveiling the new version to my husband. Additionally, postpartum hormones and breastfeeding wreaked havoc on my libido. I had to work at feeling sexy again. 
Lots of couples-only time spent reconnecting with my husband was an important part of that rekindling. And wine. Wine helped a lot. Anyone want to share tips on how they got their groove back?