Nothing will make you feel as powerful as giving your man The Look. You know the one I’m talking about. It’s the same one you gave him the first night you went to bed with him. Maybe it was your wedding night, maybe it was your first date, I’m not here to judge. All that matters is that you gave The Look.
You might not even know you gave him The Look, and if you’re unsure, ask him about it. My money is on him being able to recall every detail of The Look down to the very set of your left eyebrow.
Now, I have perfected The Look. I worked hard on The Look all through college (back when my girlfriend called it my Naughty Kitten Look) and have spent the past 10 years of marriage fine-tuning it to my husband’s preferences for maximum effect. The subtleties vary from woman to woman, so you can’t copy another Look; you need to embrace your own.
If you haven’t used The Look in a while, you might be a little rusty. But what are you waiting for, woman? It’s the Little Black Dress of facial expressions. Perfect for any occasion. Pull that thing out of the back of your closet and dust it off. It’s great for a night on the town or a simple dinner at home. The Look never goes out of style.
When you give your man The Look, you’d better be ready to back it up. I’m not saying he’s going to chase you down the hallway and throw you over his shoulder, unless you’re into that, but that’s a topic for another post.
I just mean, even if you give him The Look while you’re brushing your teeth, you’re owning something ““ his excitement, your sexuality, the bond between you both ““ and you must use your powers for good. I’m not saying you can’t drag out the teasing for hours, or days, even. The titillation of that kind of overt flirting strung out over any length of time is bound to produce fantastic results.
You just need to remember the power of The Look is immense, and with great power comes great responsibility.
“The Bombshell Mommy” is written by Abigail Blank, romance author and mother of three. Frozen Heart and its sequel, Melted Tears, are published under her pen name: Annabelle Blume. Got a question about how to juggle it all and still be a Bombshell? Email Abigail at thebombshellmommy@gmail.com, connect with her on Facebook, follow her on Twitter @Bombshell_Mommy and look for her on Pinterest.